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There are few areas that raise more concern among parents than their child's behavior. Pediatricians are often asked about the best approach to "behavior problems" but the best approach is not always clear-cut. In fact, the many professionals that deal with children often do not agree on the best approach and often there are several approaches that seem to work.

Parents frequently have difficulty telling the difference between variations in normal behavior and behavioral problems because what is normal is often dependent on a child's level of development. Children of the same age often vary in their level of development. Additionally, a child's development can be uneven so that a child's social, physical and intellectual development may not all be at the same level. Finally, each one of us has different behavior expectations for our children based on our own family, cultural and social values.

We hope that you find the resources and links listed below helpful in determining whether a behavior is a problem. We feel that they present a reasonable approach to problems. For some families this information may be all that is needed. Others may want to make an office appointment to discuss the problem further. In a few instances we may refer you to a child behavioral specialist.

The information on this web site is intended to inform and educate and is not a replacement for medical evaluation, advice, diagnosis or treatment by a health care professional.

Aggressive behavior, preventing
Anger management, teaching children
Bedtime resistance or refusal *
Biting
Breath-holding spells
      brief version
      complete version
Bullying, how to help the victim
Cheating
Damaging property
Dressing
      poking, stalling
      refusal
      teaching skills
Eating misbehavior
Fear of talking (selective mutism)
Fighting and Spitting
Glasses, instructions for improving wearing
Habit reversal training
Hurting another child
Ignoring instructions
Incentives for motivating children
Interrupting others
Lying
Masturbation in preschoolers *
Mistreating pets
Nail biting
Picky eating
Playing with others
Rebellion, adolescent
Safety misbehavior
School
      adjusting to
      homework problems
      phobia
      responsibility for schoolwork
Screaming and shouting
self-quieting skills, teaching infant
Separation anxiety
Sexual behavior, setting limits
Sibling quarrels
Sibling rivalry toward a newborn
siblings or friends, mistreating
Sleep misbehaviors
Smearing of fecal material
Spoiled children, prevention of
Stealing
Stubborn toddler
Swearing
Temper tantrums
      overview
      teaching your child coping skills
Threats or hurtful comments
Thumbsucking
Toilet Training resistance
Whining
Behavior in public places
      teaching good behavior
Bed-sharing with parents
Bed-wetting
      alarms
      general guidelines
         brief parent version
         complete parent version
         teen version
      resource list
Child abuse
      emotional
   physical
         effects of family violence on children
         shaken baby syndrome
      resource list
       sexual
         parenting sexually abused child
          protecting children (complete version)
Tooth grinding
Crib, climbing out of
Death
      general guidelines to help a child cope
      preparing children for death of a loved one
      resource list
         general
         grandparent
         parent
         pet
Parenting
      adoption
      childproofing the home
      day care, helping your child adjust
      divorce, helping children cope *
      economics of a new baby
      mother working outside the home, advice for *
      moving, helping child adjust
      new father
      new mother
      problems of early parenthood
      remarriage, helping children cope
      resource lists
         adoption
         divorce
         family relationships
         general
         moving
         parental relationships
         parenting teenagers
         remarriage and stepparenting
         sibling of newborn
         working parents
      sex education for young children
      sexually abused child
      sibling rivalry with newborn *
      single parenting
      sleep problems, prevention from 6 months to 2 years *
      sleep problems, prevention from birth to 6 months *
      stepparenting
      toddler discipline
Learning disabilities
      overview
      resource list
Independent play
      increasing attention span during play
Nap refusal
Night awakenings by older infants
      trained night crier
      trained night feeder
Night terrors *
Nightmares *
Nighttime feedings, phasing out
Television
      movies, fear from
      reducing the negative impact *
Tics
      habit reversal training
      overview *
      Tourette's syndrome
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